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Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Loving Words From a Dying Man

Three weeks and one hundred and four photos later, I finally got a really good shot of Hammy!

He has been in a photogenic mood because we have company! both Kristi and Joy (Kim's sister and mom) have been smitten by the two kittens -- I haven't gotten a definitive shot of Stella yet -- but when I do, it, too, will be published!

We found out yesterday, after giving them both a mouth-administered anitbiotic, that they are still suffering from an upper respiratory infection. so It was back to the vet to pick up two more bottles @ $21.00 a bottle.

They are more than worth it!

We are fast finding that both of these little critters are real lovers. Last night, Hammy spent half the night with Kim and me, upstairs on the fold out couch, and Stella cuddled with the gals on the bed downstairs.

Yesterday I raised the two flags that I fly every autumn at the office: the flag of Ireland and the Green Bay Packer flag.

After reading the news story of Jon Ryan's being cut as our punter (WHAT???) I thought it appropriate to fly the Packer flag upside down until the season proves me wrong -- that we are not a team in distress. I am liking Teddy Thompson less and less and the season hasn't even started yet!

I received this beautiful letter from my good friend Matt Capell and feel compelled to share it with you:

Gabriel Garcia Marquez, famous writer from Colombia (Love in the Time of Cholera, One Hundred Years of Solitude, etc.), and Nobel Peace Prize winner for literature, has retired from public life for reasons of health. He has a form of cancer that is terminal. He has sent a farewell letter to his friends. It is recommended reading because it is moving to see how one of the best and most brilliant of writers expresses himself with joy and sorrow. Even as I'm certain this would have sounded TWICE as good in Spanish, on this day of rest in celebration of labor, let us enjoy the English version...

He says:

If God, for a second, forgot what I have become and granted me a little bit more of life, I would use it to the best of my ability. I wouldn't, possibly, say everything that is in my mind, but I would be more thoughtful of all I say. I would give merit to things not for what they are worth, but for what they mean to express. I would sleep little, I would dream more, because I know that for every minute that we close our eyes, we waste 60 seconds of light. I would walk while others stop; I would awake while others sleep.

If God would give me a little bit more of life, I would dress in a simple manner, I would place myself in front of the sun, leaving not only my body, but my soul naked at its mercy.

To all men, I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love. I would give wings to children, but I would leave it to them to learn how to fly by themselves.

To old people I would say that death doesn't arrive when they grow old, but with forgetfulness. I have learned so much with you all, I have learned that everybody wants to live on top of the mountain, without knowing that true happiness is obtained in the journey taken and the form used to reach the top of the hill.

I have learned that when a newborn baby holds, with its little hand, his father's finger, it has trapped him for the rest of his life . I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground.

Say always what you feel, not what you think. If I knew that today is the last time that that I am going to see you asleep, I would hug you with all my strength and I would pray to the Lord to let me be the guardian angel of your soul. If I knew that these are the last moments to see you, I would say 'I love you'. There is always tomorrow, and life gives us another opportunity to do things right, but in case I am wrong, and today is all that is left to me, I would love to tell you how much I love you and that I will never forget you.

Tomorrow is never guaranteed to anyone, young or old. Today could be the last time to see your loved ones, which is why you mustn't wait; do it today, in case tomorrow never arrives. I am sure you will be sorry you wasted the opportunity today to give a smile, a hug, a kiss, and that you were too busy to grant them their last wish.

Keep your loved ones near you; tell them in their ears and to their faces how much you need them and love them. Love them and treat them well; take your time to tell them 'I am sorry'; 'forgive me', 'please', 'thank you', and all those loving words you know.

Nobody will know you for your secret thought. Ask the Lord for wisdom and strength to express them. Show your friends and loved ones how important they are to you. Send this letter to those you love. If you don't do it today, tomorrow will be like yesterday, and if you never do it, it doesn't matter either, the moment to do it is now.

For you, with much love,
Your Friend,
Gabriel Garcia Marquez


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